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You have the ability to decide whether you are happy or not. Happiness is a choice.
You can’t depend on someone else to make you happy. That is a lesson I learned early in my marriage. I realized that I couldn’t rely on my husband as my source of happiness. I learned that my happiness depended on myself and not my husband’s actions. I learned that you have to choose to be happy.
You can choose your emotions. True happiness comes from within, and it can’t be forced by outside force. So how do you choose happiness? The same way, you choose to smile or choose to wear a certain outfit（一套衣服）. You choose it because that’s what you want to experience in you life.
You want to buy a new pair of shoes so you choose a pair that you like and feels good. You wouldn’t buy a pair of shoes that you don’t like or that doesn’t fit well, right? So why do we keep choosing emotions and feelings that don’t make us feel good?
Choosing to be happy after you realize your anger has shown up (or even choosing to be calm) can be beneficial. We choose our feelings; no one else can do that for us. If we let others get to us, influence our emotions — we are giving them power over us. When others cause us anger or pain, we are giving them our power.
We need to keep our feelings in check and not to react（反應(yīng)） automatically to what is thrown at us. We need to think our actions out instead of just reacting to what someone says or does.
Remember that we can always choose happiness. At first it will be difficult to just switch（使轉(zhuǎn)變）your thoughts and feelings from anger, self-doubt, or fear to joy and happiness. But it is only a thought away. Don’t dwell on（細(xì)想） what happens to you unnecessarily but realize what is causing you to feel that way. Realize that thoughts, feelings and emotions can change. Then move on and choose to be happy.
64. What’s the best title of this passage?
A. Pretend to Be Happy
B. Choose Your Emotions
C. Choose to Be Happy
D. Find Happiness
65. The lesson the writer learned in her marriage is          .
A. one can’t depend on someone else to make himself or herself happy
B. balancing the relationship between husband and wife is an art
C. she can depend on her husband to find happiness
D. happiness can be influenced by outside force
66. Why did the writer mention buying shoes?
A. To offer advice on how to choose comfortable shoes.
B. To use it as an example to illustrate（闡述）her point of view.
C. To compare choosing shoes and choosing an outfit.
D. To help move to the next paragraph easily.
67. The writer suggests that we should          .
A. let others control our feelings
B. respond immediately to others’ words
C. hold back our feelings properly
D. pay more attention to words than actions

閱讀下文，完成文后各題。

一株玉米的人生    冰山雪蓮

    大千世界，蕓蕓眾生，誰人不是經(jīng)歷了一番坎坷?萬物生靈，誰的一生又會是一帆風(fēng)順的呢?萬事如意，心想事成，只不過是人們對生活的美好祝愿罷了。

    你看，那田間的一株株的玉米幼苗，不也是農(nóng)人精心播種下去的嗎?看它們安靜的享受著陽光雨露，我想：它們的一生應(yīng)該是萬事如意，一帆風(fēng)順的吧?

    不!細(xì)想它們一生的經(jīng)歷，每一階段又何嘗不是經(jīng)歷了一番苦難呢?

    尚是種子時，它們中間有的就被篩選出來，被無情地丟棄。優(yōu)勝劣汰，大自然的法則永遠(yuǎn)是殘酷無情的!那么，被選中的種子是否就一生萬事大吉了呢?

    不!你看那嫩綠的幼芽兒旁邊，不是有一粒種子在默默地哭泣么?它籽粒飽滿，在陽光的照耀下閃著熠熠的光澤。誰能不說它是一粒優(yōu)秀的種子呢?而如今，就因為農(nóng)人的一個疏忽，它成了大地的棄兒，艷羨地看著昔日的同伴伸展著稚嫩的雙臂接受大自然的恩澤，而自己卻只能永遠(yuǎn)生活在同伴的陰影下，在孤寂的時光里嗚咽!這一切難道是它的錯?

    那么，有機(jī)會發(fā)芽的種子該是命運(yùn)的寵兒了吧?

    不!當(dāng)它們生長到大約二三十厘米的時候，農(nóng)人們要再一次執(zhí)行優(yōu)勝劣汰的法則。一株株比較贏弱的玉米幼苗被生生的連根拔起!剎那間，我仿佛聽見一聲聲因錐心的疼痛而發(fā)出的痛苦呻吟，一聲聲哀嘆命運(yùn)不公而發(fā)出的吶喊!是啊，它們并不都是羸弱的，枯黃的，它們中也有茁壯的，優(yōu)秀的，可是，他們又能向誰去討回公道呢?怨它們的位置不符合農(nóng)人的要求?可那位置恰恰就是農(nóng)人給的呀!

    那么，有幸被留下來的幼苗就可以高枕無憂了吧?

    不!它們將接受更多的考驗!洪水、干旱、冰雹、蝗蟲……將像猛獸一樣時時肆虐的對待每一株幼苗!苗兒們要時時緊緊的抓住大地母親的衣襟，稍有不慎就會被徹底擊倒，而且永遠(yuǎn)不得復(fù)生!

    難哪!那么，經(jīng)歷了種種磨難和坎坷，最終結(jié)得累累碩果的玉米們該是最最幸運(yùn)的了吧?是的，它們是幸運(yùn)的!你看，它們在秋目的陽光照耀下，露出金黃的笑臉，自豪地站在秋風(fēng)中縱情歌唱的幸福模樣，的確讓人感到欣慰。可是，另一種不幸在別處悄悄地窺視著它們呢!

    收獲的季節(jié)到了!雖然一穗穗玉米幸福地被農(nóng)人收倉，但是，在田澗地頭，仍會有一些玉米被人遺漏。它們像倉中的玉米一樣金黃，一樣顆粒飽滿，一樣歷經(jīng)風(fēng)雨，一樣歷經(jīng)滄桑。可現(xiàn)在，只能在孤寂的秋夜里無奈的嗚咽，在漸冷的秋風(fēng)中無聲的長嘆，在凄風(fēng)苦雨的侵襲下慢慢的腐爛!這，就是一株玉米的人生!經(jīng)歷了種種坎坷與磨難最終達(dá)到了成功彼岸，得到了自己想要的，就應(yīng)談是幸福的，幸運(yùn)的了。因為還有那一樣歷經(jīng)風(fēng)霜而最終以悲劇形式離開的人們。

    這，就是命運(yùn)!強(qiáng)，是因為有弱相比較；幸，是因為有不幸做陪襯！

其實(shí)，人的一生如果真的萬事如意，一帆風(fēng)順，心想事成，又何嘗不是另一種悲哀呢?就像蜂蜜喝多了就不覺得甜一樣。只有經(jīng)歷了許多波折，品嘗了人生百味，人生道路上的風(fēng)景才會色彩斑斕，五彩繽紛。人生不僅要有高度，更要有深度廣度和厚度!不管結(jié)局如何，我努力過，我爭取過，我奮斗過，我不僅走過、路過，還深深地悟過!我的人生了無遺憾就不愧來人世間走一遭!

分析第一段的含義及作用（4分)

解釋下列兩句話在文中的含義。

  (1)可現(xiàn)在，只能在孤寂的秋夜里無奈的嗚咽，在漸冷的秋風(fēng)中無聲的長嘆，在凄風(fēng)苦雨的侵襲下慢慢的腐爛!

  (2)人的一生如果真的萬事如意，一帆風(fēng)順，心想事成，有何嘗不是另一種悲哀呢?

請概括玉米一生可能遇到的不幸。

結(jié)合實(shí)際情況，談一談“一株玉米的人生”給你人生的啟示。

You have the ability to decide whether you are happy or not. Happiness is a choice.

You can’t depend on someone else to make you happy. That is a lesson I learned early in my marriage. I realized that I couldn’t rely on my husband as my source of happiness. I learned that my happiness depended on myself and not my husband’s actions. I learned that you have to choose to be happy.

You can choose your emotions. True happiness comes from within, and it can’t be forced by outside force. So how do you choose happiness? The same way, you choose to smile or choose to wear a certain outfit（一套衣服）. You choose it because that’s what you want to experience in you life.

You want to buy a new pair of shoes so you choose a pair that you like and feels good. You wouldn’t buy a pair of shoes that you don’t like or that doesn’t fit well, right? So why do we keep choosing emotions and feelings that don’t make us feel good?

Choosing to be happy after you realize your anger has shown up (or even choosing to be calm) can be beneficial. We choose our feelings; no one else can do that for us. If we let others get to us, influence our emotions — we are giving them power over us. When others cause us anger or pain, we are giving them our power.

We need to keep our feelings in check and not to react（反應(yīng)） automatically to what is thrown at us. We need to think our actions out instead of just reacting to what someone says or does.

Remember that we can always choose happiness. At first it will be difficult to just switch（使轉(zhuǎn)變）your thoughts and feelings from anger, self-doubt, or fear to joy and happiness. But it is only a thought away. Don’t dwell on（細(xì)想） what happens to you unnecessarily but realize what is causing you to feel that way. Realize that thoughts, feelings and emotions can change. Then move on and choose to be happy.

64. What’s the best title of this passage?

         A. Pretend to Be Happy

         B. Choose Your Emotions

         C. Choose to Be Happy

         D. Find Happiness

65. The lesson the writer learned in her marriage is          .

         A. one can’t depend on someone else to make himself or herself happy

         B. balancing the relationship between husband and wife is an art

         C. she can depend on her husband to find happiness

         D. happiness can be influenced by outside force

66. Why did the writer mention buying shoes?

         A. To offer advice on how to choose comfortable shoes.

         B. To use it as an example to illustrate（闡述）her point of view.

         C. To compare choosing shoes and choosing an outfit.

         D. To help move to the next paragraph easily.

67. The writer suggests that we should          .

         A. let others control our feelings

         B. respond immediately to others’ words

         C. hold back our feelings properly

         D. pay more attention to words than actions

You have the ability to decide whether you are happy or not. Happiness is a choice.
You can’t depend on someone else to make you happy. That is a lesson I learned early in my marriage. I realized that I couldn’t rely on my husband as my source of happiness. I learned that my happiness depended on myself and not my husband’s actions. I learned that you have to choose to be happy.
You can choose your emotions. True happiness comes from within, and it can’t be forced by outside force. So how do you choose happiness? The same way, you choose to smile or choose to wear a certain outfit（一套衣服）. You choose it because that’s what you want to experience in you life.
You want to buy a new pair of shoes so you choose a pair that you like and feels good. You wouldn’t buy a pair of shoes that you don’t like or that doesn’t fit well, right? So why do we keep choosing emotions and feelings that don’t make us feel good?
Choosing to be happy after you realize your anger has shown up (or even choosing to be calm) can be beneficial. We choose our feelings; no one else can do that for us. If we let others get to us, influence our emotions — we are giving them power over us. When others cause us anger or pain, we are giving them our power.
We need to keep our feelings in check and not to react（反應(yīng)） automatically to what is thrown at us. We need to think our actions out instead of just reacting to what someone says or does.
Remember that we can always choose happiness. At first it will be difficult to just switch（使轉(zhuǎn)變）your thoughts and feelings from anger, self-doubt, or fear to joy and happiness. But it is only a thought away. Don’t dwell on（細(xì)想） what happens to you unnecessarily but realize what is causing you to feel that way. Realize that thoughts, feelings and emotions can change. Then move on and choose to be happy.
【小題1】 What’s the best title of this passage?

A．Pretend to Be Happy

B．Choose Your Emotions

C．Choose to Be Happy

D．Find Happiness

You have the ability to decide whether you are happy or not. Happiness is a choice.

You can’t depend on someone else to make you happy. That is a lesson I learned early in my marriage. I realized that I couldn’t rely on my husband as my source of happiness. I learned that my happiness depended on myself and not my husband’s actions. I learned that you have to choose to be happy.

You can choose your emotions. True happiness comes from within, and it can’t be forced by outside force. So how do you choose happiness? The same way, you choose to smile or choose to wear a certain outfit（一套衣服）. You choose it because that’s what you want to experience in you life.

You want to buy a new pair of shoes so you choose a pair that you like and feels good. You wouldn’t buy a pair of shoes that you don’t like or that doesn’t fit well, right? So why do we keep choosing emotions and feelings that don’t make us feel good?

Choosing to be happy after you realize your anger has shown up (or even choosing to be calm) can be beneficial. We choose our feelings; no one else can do that for us. If we let others get to us, influence our emotions — we are giving them power over us. When others cause us anger or pain, we are giving them our power.

We need to keep our feelings in check and not to react（反應(yīng)） automatically to what is thrown at us. We need to think our actions out instead of just reacting to what someone says or does.

Remember that we can always choose happiness. At first it will be difficult to just switch（使轉(zhuǎn)變）your thoughts and feelings from anger, self-doubt, or fear to joy and happiness. But it is only a thought away. Don’t dwell on（細(xì)想） what happens to you unnecessarily but realize what is causing you to feel that way. Realize that thoughts, feelings and emotions can change. Then move on and choose to be happy.

1. What’s the best title of this passage?

    A. Pretend to Be Happy

    B. Choose Your Emotions

    C. Choose to Be Happy

    D. Find Happiness

2. The lesson the writer learned in her marriage is          .

    A. one can’t depend on someone else to make himself or herself happy

    B. balancing the relationship between husband and wife is an art

    C. she can depend on her husband to find happiness

    D. happiness can be influenced by outside force

3.Why did the writer mention buying shoes?

    A. To offer advice on how to choose comfortable shoes.

    B. To use it as an example to illustrate（闡述）her point of view.

    C. To compare choosing shoes and choosing an outfit.

    D. To help move to the next paragraph easily.

4.The writer suggests that we should          .

    A. let others control our feelings

    B. respond immediately to others’ words

    C. hold back our feelings properly

    D. pay more attention to words than actions